Saturday, December 12, 2009

Grieving in My Sleep

A good portion of the night last night I spent dreaming about Joey and our family missing him.  I cried a lot in my sleep.  I'm not sure why I can't cry in real life very much, but it's tough for some reason.  I feel as though it's not real most of the time, so I just spend a lot of time in disbelief.  I guess in my sleep it's more real. 

I feel guilty for going on with life.  I feel as though I should still be grieving a lot.  But, most of the day, I'm fine.  Is that normal?  Is that okay?  I've never gone through a death of someone that I was this close to, so I'm not sure what to think or feel.  I'm still just trying to wrap my mind around it all.

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